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Just
last month I stepped up to the counter at a Bank of America in Camarillo,
California.
"Hi,
I just want to cash this check I received." I pushed the Bank of
America-drawn personal check and my ID to the teller.
"Okay,
are you a Bank of America customer?"
"No."
"Okay,
that's not a problem." She tapped on her keyboard and looked down at my
driver's license. Then she tapped some more and looked down at my driver's
license. "Hold on one second, I'm going to have to get a supervisor."
She
walked over to where a supervisor seemed to be helping another teller. She
waited and waited. Finally she gave up and came back to me. After more tapping
and looking, she furrowed her brow, "I just don't see any licenses that
match yours," she said, swinging her monitor around so I could see.
"Oh,
those pictures are all examples of Washington state IDs, my driver's license is
from Washington, DC."
She
stared back at me blankly. And here I have to say, having lived a decade in the
District, I'm no longer surprised by when I come across people who have no idea
that Washington, D.C. is not a city in any of the 50 states and who can't even
say what D.C. stands for.
"The
District of Columbia," I added.
"Colombia?"
she asked.
She
was clearly a Latina and she pronounced the word like the South American
country, with two long Os.
"Habla
Espanol?" I asked.
"Si…"
she answered, curious.
I went
out on a limb, taking a chance she was Mexican. "El District of Columbia en Los Estados Unidos es como DF." I knew a Mexican
would immediately get the DF reference.
Her
face lit up, we were on the same page. She and I spent a few minutes talking
(in English) about D.C., about how small it is, how it's home to the White
House and Congress and many incredible museums, and how so few people live
there that here in California, she is unlikely to ever see another D.C. ID.
She
seemed appreciative.
And
this is one reason why I love our nomadic life. Not sharing information, but
acquiring it myself, in a way that our unique lives make possible. I could have
traveled to Mexico a dozen times for vacation and never have learned that
Mexicans refer to their seat of government, and usually Mexico City itself, as
DF (pronounced "day effay"), that there is not a Mexican alive who
doesn't instantly know what someone means when they hear those two letters. I
know this only because our cruising life has allowed us to spend a lot of time
in Mexico, and like the time we spend in every place we visit, it’s filled with
the sundry tasks of laundry and shopping and doctor's visits and more that give
us insights and knowledge we'd not gain traveling another way. It makes my
experience, and my life, richer.
In
the month I spent in the States, I mentioned Fiji to a ton of people. Many have
seen the water bottle, many associate the name with an exotic vacation
destination. Few know that it's a country, where it is on the planet, what the
population looks like, what the greetings are, what the shopping malls in
downtown Suva are like, what sevusevu with a village chief entails, and a
million other things. And I don't report that as a slight—I know just as little
about the hundreds of countries I've not visited.
But my
point is that I want to visit all of them because of what I feel I've gained in
perspective from the few I have visited. Knowing that many shop keepers in
Tonga use Chinese calculators that feature a little speaker that shouts out the
keypad numerals in Chinese as they're pressed, is a tidbit that means
absolutely nothing, but that I cherish. Knowing the two-letter abbreviation that
Mexicans use to refer to their capital won't make me rich, doesn't prepare me
to write a book on Mexico, and doesn't make me any smarter than the bank teller
and anyone else who doesn't share this knowledge. But these things, combined
with all the hundreds of thousands of arcane bits of info I've acquired about
the people and places we've been fortunate to visit over the past seven years, make
me happy. These are miniscule pieces to life's puzzle, a puzzle that none of us
can ever fully assemble, but which we're all lucky to spend time working on.
And
of course, picking up knowledge—some of it useful, much of it meaningless—is
something that happens to all of us as we age. And maybe the way in which it
shapes perspective is what we refer to as wisdom. But a diversity of that
knowledge is something that comes from slow travel. It's what I'm happiest
about when I think of the benefits my family realizes from our nomadic life.
--MR
A near-daily trek into town from our Savusavu Marina mooring. |
The crossroads in downtown Savusavu. |
Great minds think alike! I have a similar blog post coming out tomorrow.... :)
ReplyDeleteFunny, my upcoming post mentions you...stand by.
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