Windy and the girls bathing in rainwater collected in the Pudgy. We've had several extended deluges that make this possible. It's heaven for dirty cruisers. |
We’ve
been hanging out and exploring the island of Tutuila in American Samoa for
a month. The capital is Pago Pago (pronounced “pango pango”), but we’ve not
spent much of our time there, but in the larger, surrounding communities. It’s
rained almost constantly, we’ve hardly seen the sun, the wind has blown
relentlessly, and the harbor water is too dirty to swim in. We have been
absolutely charmed by American Samoa.
I’m not
being facetious. The steep sides of the remnants of a volcano crater that form the
protected harbor in which we’re moored and the serendipitous encounters we’ve
had with the American Samoans, have made it clear how misinformed we were prior
to arriving. Based on all we heard, we anticipated a cesspool of Americana in
the South Pacific. This place is beautiful and the people are warm and utterly
foreign to us.
“Excuse
me…”
I got
up from the bus stop bench and approached the car window.
“I
just saw you guys sitting here twenty minutes ago, you still haven’t caught a bus.
Where are you going?”
“Pago.”
“Ahh,”
she nodded. “Okay, you’re gonna have trouble catching a bus at this time, get in,
all of you.” She waved and motioned to Windy and the girls behind me. “I’ll
take you.”
“You
sure? We could pay for your gas, thank you very much.”
She
opened the back and I began loading some of our bags. It was getting dark and
we’d pushed the bus schedule too close and lost. We were gonna do our time here
on the bench to be absolutely certain though, before we paid $20 for a 20-minute
cab ride back to Pago Pago.
White caps in the anchorage. For most of our time here, it's been blowing hard and there's been lots of rain. The nearby peak is called The Rainmaker. |
On
the way, she tried repeatedly to get ahold of her sister on the phone, to let
her know she’d be home late, going 40 minutes out of her way to help some random
palogis (foreigner, pronounced “palongi”).
En route she answered all of our questions about Samoan culture, helping us
make sense of so much we’d observed and didn’t understand. Despite the name of
this place and that everyone speaks American English and the two McDonalds restaurants
and U.S. post office, it had become obvious to us that this clearly wasn’t an extension
of the U.S., not even close. The men here wear skirts (lava lavas), Samoan
music and ‘80s ballads pound from the speakers in the colorful homemade buses,
the teenagers are disarmingly friendly, and nearly every home features a grave next
to the front door.
When
we arrived in Pago where we’d left the dinghy, we thanked our new friend
profusely and I insisted she take $5 for gas money and the girls turned over a
small bag of homemade cookies we’d packaged up to give someone else who’d been
kind to us, but whom we’d not run across.
Then, without
missing a beat, she reciprocated—as if she’d not already—by giving Windy the
lava lava she’d been wearing that Windy had casually admired. Just another
piece of the Pacific Island culture we learned, that people are very quick to
gift when they’ve been gifted and there is a tendency to give those things that
have been admired by others.
In
short, we got a ride from a stranger who went significantly out of her way, and
then she drove off leaving us the clothes off her back.
I
could share three other such stories from American Samoa, of strangers extending
warmth and kindness beyond what I’d ever expect. It’s been a treat—not simply
to have been a beneficiary of this kindness, but to travel through places like
this with my girls and to have them experience this kindness in a more natural
way. For them this is normal, it’s largely what they’ve come to know over the
past five years living as a traveling family. Because while I know the American
Samoa culture (not distinct from the Samoan culture, from what we’ve learned,
or from Pacific Island culture in general) is kind and open in a way we are not
used to,* I also know that as travelers, we are often vulnerable to acts of kindness,
because we are always the outsider, always on the street and looking out, asking
outsider questions. For five years, my kids have been immersed in a world that
is perhaps more kind than they could have known in a more conventional context.
They expect kindness from strangers and they offer kindness without
reservation. It’s shaping who they are. I can see it.
--MR
* I
also know these cultures have serious problems, I don’t want to idealize them,
they’re not all peaches and cream. But as travelers, those are not the aspects
we are exposed to.
No, not the same water--it's a new day. Despite the crowded harbor and homes and businesses all around, some of us still bathe au natural. |