Ethan showing Windy what's what. (courtesy Nancy Jones, Eyoni) |
Del
Viento is sitting high and dry and defenseless (against adverse weather) in a Sonoran
desert boatyard. But more on that in a later post. I want to write today the
story of our getting here, the story of our people.
We
first met Ethan, Nancy, and their daughter Zada two years ago in La Paz. Afterward
they sailed south on Eyoni to discover Panama while we headed north on Del
Viento to discover Alaska. Now here we all were again, in this same city, the
kids and parents picking up where we left off, but with a history. It was all
good, except for what wasn’t.
The
Eyoni crew were now at the disquieting intersection between their 6-year
cruising past and a future that will look very different. While their return to
stateside life is a fate we all share, for various reasons—and a personal reminder
that we cannot forever delay our own return to the workaday world—it seems sort
of unjust in Eyoni’s case. I’ve never met—nor even read about—a family that derives
more joy from this floating vagabond existence.
Eleanor atop a Baja navigation light tower. |
When
we left La Paz the first week of May, we left Eyoni behind. But the night
before we raised anchor, over shots from Ethan’s tequila flask, Nancy said
they may be right behind us, heading north for a short last hurrah in the Sea
they’ve come to love. So we went slowly, just in case.
During
our seven-day rendezvous, we saw more, explored more, and did more with the Eyonians
than we would have done in a month on our own. (We admit to letting days pass at
beautiful anchorages where we hang out aboard just doing our thing.) Ethan and
Nancy are keen observers and despite having spent seasons past in the Sea, they
explore with a contagious sense of wonder, zeal, and appreciation that left us following in their
footsteps, eager to have our eyes opened.
Ethan shaping a found bone into a needed marlinspike. |
In
a single day, we anchored in three different places, miles to sail between each
of them. In that same day, we walked a beach as far as we could see, Nancy and
Ethan helping us to identify the bones, shells, and tracks we encountered along
the way. We climbed navigational lights, built a fire to roast marshmallows,
and dinghied deep into mangroves for a picnic. We saw centuries-old hand tools hidden
in plain sight among middens and we swam to the sandy bottom twenty feet below
our boat to see the distinct shotgun-muzzle sign of buried clams. By the time
we arrived at our evening anchorage at San Evaristo, Nancy had taught each of
the three girls to braid their own Challah loaf for dinner.
Eyoni
is north now, way north, but out of the Sea, on the outside of the Baja, and not
far from the U.S. border. I doubt assimilating back into U.S. life will be a painless
affair, but I wish them the best. There are all kinds of families in this
world, but only a tiny percentage of those who have the means and are otherwise
able to be out here—living this unique, floating way—choose to do so. So the
families we meet on this proverbial mountaintop, the ones who made the same set
of choices we did, who face the same challenges, who yearn for and appreciate many
of the same things, and who are as unabashedly pleased with their path after
six years as we are after three years…well, those are our people.
Fair
winds ashore Eyoni family. We’re spending the rest of the year in your beloved
Sea and will refer often to the notes and superlatives that Ethan scribbled throughout
our cruising guide.
--MR
Eleanor, Nancy, Windy, Zada, and Frances walking the salt flats. |
Eyoni at anchor, Isla San Francisco. |
The two crews. It's clear Nancy and Eleanor are the posers. |
Ethan and Nancy waving from Eyoni. |
Frances and Zada herding fiddler crabs. |
Hiking down the road to the salt flats behind San Evaristo. |
Frances greeting mama burro. |
Two mothers and their daughters enjoying a Mothers' Day walk. |
Who brings marshmallows and fire starting stuff with them on a hot Baja hike? I think you know. (courtesy Nancy Jones, Eyoni) |
Me launching off a cliff. (courtesy Nancy Jones, Eyoni) |
Frances and Zada waiting outside a San Evaristo tienda. (courtesy Nancy Jones, Eyoni) |
Eyoni motoring into the sunset. |
Sigh. Looks heavenly.
ReplyDeleteWish you and the boys were here...
ReplyDeleteWindy
So you made me cry.
ReplyDeleteWow....didn't expect to see this when I jumped on to see an update on Bean the rescue doggy, but thank you. One never knows how they are seen by the outside world and though we love to share and get so excited about many of the things we have done or seen, it's few, really, who take it in and want to go and do the same. Too often we bring our State-side limitations in life along for the ride which slows us down, stops us from stepping forward or seeing really, what is before us. We loved that you all just "got it" and appreciated what was before you for there are too many (from land based to cruisers) who simply don't and for that reason, and more, it was with heavy hearts that we had to say goodbye and sail away from you in the most charming of places, San Evaristo. We are happy to have met you and are thrilled that you and the girls will explore the Sea of Cortez - one of the most finest places on this watery globe of life. We look forward to your take and views on the new things you will see and do. Your all have such good, good minds and great attitudes and that is 9/10ths of the cruising lifestyle which makes all the difference between living in a small space and doing well, vs. having it be a nightmare. So enjoy the ride and who knows, the good ship Eyoni might just turn around and sail south again after our re-entry into the States. If there is one thing we've learned, it's easy to up and go and Mexico and that beloved Sea of Cortez is right there, just to the south and a couple left turns along the way. We love you guys so much and are happy for you. With love and a clean hosed off boat and bodies too, from Ensenada...our last Mexican port o' call before we clear back into the States in less than a weeks time. Oh now, here's those damn tears again.....Amor amigos.... - Nancy